Argonaut Aura

had a pretty interesting discussion on alpha females over the weekend at redang and a pretty good trip too. these days traveled quite a bit outta town with colleagues and sometimes together with other frens too. =)

alpha refers to the ’superior’ species, prolly about top 20% of the population. alpha male is not a new concept and it evolved back in the days of caveman and all. alpha female however seemed pretty new a concept. the definition of alpha male and alpha females are disparate as the varying gender role in society called for different versions of the alpha. Interestingly, alpha females are attracted to alpha males contrary to popular belief of her with a more submissive man. It is possible to improve your alpha-ness but is it necessary for everyone to be alpha? How varied are the personalities amongst the alphas?

According to AskMen.com, ‘When you can make women feel both listened to and led, both recognized and guided , then you will carry a “vibe” about you that no busting, sarcastic, “Alpha” loudmouth could ever even hope to imitate, much less realize and enjoy.’

alpha females (according to a friend’s opinion) is one who is able to use her charms to assert, has social poweress, complemented by good looks and physique, with no need for external validation. Females traditionally hold the role of a protector whereas men are more of a hunter.. alpha-male females may be necessarily useful in certain context (e.g. as a boss, in a competitive workplace, as an entrepreneur) but alpha females may still turn out better eventually.

perhaps we are striving to be alpha females in our own regards (realms of imagination and definitions). =)